Clarity before chemistry

Understand yourself.
Show up differently.

Sokoon helps you explore your relationship patterns through reflection, guided conversation and the perspectives of people who know you.

Single, dating, in a relationship, or finding your way after one.

$9/month · First purchase: 7-day refund

Read member experiences ↓

Start where you are

What's going on with your
relationships right now?

Choose what feels familiar, or keep exploring. You don't need to fit yourself into a category.

Just exploring? See how Sokoon works. No situation selection is needed.

How it works

A little space.
A clearer view of yourself.

Start with what you know about yourself. Add detail, reflection and outside perspective at your own pace.

01

Begin with the 10-minute quiz

Answer questions about how you respond in relationships. This gives your guided conversation a place to begin.

02

Talk it through. Read your insights.

Explore specific moments in your guided conversation. Your answers become personal insights about your patterns, with something to reflect on or try.

03 · OUTSIDE PERSPECTIVE

See yourself from the outside in

Invite people who know you to offer outside perspective. Compare how you see yourself with how people who know you see you.

Add your circle and Deep Dives. Work through four focused conversations before or after inviting your circle: Attachment & Security, Conflict, Values & Life Vision, and Intimacy & Connection.

Your insights come together as you complete the journey.

04

Talk to me, anytime

Come back when something comes up: a difficult conversation, a familiar reaction, a new connection. Talk to me uses your saved Sokoon context to help you reflect.

From our members

What people actually said.

In their own words: what stood out in the conversations, outside perspectives and insights.

“It was really eye-opening. I loved how it went into deep questions that I didn't realize I needed to answer to understand myself. The analysis at the end of who I am and how people see me was really cool.”Member | Female | 35–40
“The Deep Dive on its own is worth it: a thorough, structured breakdown of your own attachment style, conflict patterns, values, and intimacy language is the kind of thing most people never actually sit down and do for themselves.”Member | Male | 20–25
“I also like that it tells you what areas you need to work on to be better, and gives you details about it.”Member | Female | 35–40
“Very impressed. I enjoyed it and it was very valuable.”Member | Male | 40–45

Four excerpts from three early members. Some members are part of the founder's personal network.

One membership

Show up differently
in your relationships.

$9 USD / month

Your membership includes everything below. Enter your email and pay securely with Stripe, then sign in using your email link. Before you begin, confirm you’re 18 or older, agree to the Terms, and give the required consent to process sensitive information.

Renews monthly until canceled. Adults 18 and older.

  • Your assessment and guided conversation
  • Personal insights and your report
  • All four Deep Dives
  • Your circle's outside perspective
  • Talk to me, using your saved context

7-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

Cancel within 7 days of your first-ever purchase for a full refund of your first month. After that, cancellation stops your next renewal and you keep access through the end of your paid month.

AUTOMATIC CANCELLATION IF UNUSED

If you don’t visit Sokoon while signed in during a full paid month, we automatically cancel your membership at the end of that month—you won’t be charged for the next one. We’ll remind you 5 days before renewal. The unused month isn’t refunded.

Before you begin

A few things to know.

What is a guided conversation?

Sokoon's conversations and reports use AI. They help you reflect on what you share and your saved context. You aren't chatting with a human therapist or coach, and AI can make mistakes.

Is Sokoon therapy or a dating service?

Sokoon is a self-discovery service, not therapy, medical care or a crisis service. Membership currently offers the assessment, conversations, insights, circle and Deep Dives described here. It does not promise introductions or matching.

What happens to what I share?

Before using the product, you'll be asked for explicit consent to sensitive processing. You can manage that consent and request deletion in Membership. Read the Privacy and Consumer Health Data policies before joining.

Do I have to choose a situation?

No. The starting points help you explore Sokoon in a way that feels relevant. They all lead to the same membership and you can begin without choosing one.