Begin with the 10-minute quiz
Answer questions about how you respond in relationships. This gives your guided conversation a place to begin.
Clarity before chemistry
Sokoon helps you explore your relationship patterns through reflection, guided conversation and the perspectives of people who know you.
Single, dating, in a relationship, or finding your way after one.
$9/month · First purchase: 7-day refund
Read member experiences ↓Start where you are
Choose what feels familiar, or keep exploring. You don't need to fit yourself into a category.
Look at what draws you in, and what matters to you.
Understand your part in the moments that keep repeating.
Make room to reflect on what happened and what you need.
Get curious about your patterns, at your own pace.
Just exploring? See how Sokoon works. No situation selection is needed.
How it works
Start with what you know about yourself. Add detail, reflection and outside perspective at your own pace.
Answer questions about how you respond in relationships. This gives your guided conversation a place to begin.
Explore specific moments in your guided conversation. Your answers become personal insights about your patterns, with something to reflect on or try.
Invite people who know you to offer outside perspective. Compare how you see yourself with how people who know you see you.
Add your circle and Deep Dives. Work through four focused conversations before or after inviting your circle: Attachment & Security, Conflict, Values & Life Vision, and Intimacy & Connection.
Your insights come together as you complete the journey.
Come back when something comes up: a difficult conversation, a familiar reaction, a new connection. Talk to me uses your saved Sokoon context to help you reflect.
From our members
In their own words: what stood out in the conversations, outside perspectives and insights.
“It was really eye-opening. I loved how it went into deep questions that I didn't realize I needed to answer to understand myself. The analysis at the end of who I am and how people see me was really cool.”Member | Female | 35–40
“The Deep Dive on its own is worth it: a thorough, structured breakdown of your own attachment style, conflict patterns, values, and intimacy language is the kind of thing most people never actually sit down and do for themselves.”Member | Male | 20–25
“I also like that it tells you what areas you need to work on to be better, and gives you details about it.”Member | Female | 35–40
“Very impressed. I enjoyed it and it was very valuable.”Member | Male | 40–45
Four excerpts from three early members. Some members are part of the founder's personal network.
One membership
Your membership includes everything below. Enter your email and pay securely with Stripe, then sign in using your email link. Before you begin, confirm you’re 18 or older, agree to the Terms, and give the required consent to process sensitive information.
Renews monthly until canceled. Adults 18 and older.
Cancel within 7 days of your first-ever purchase for a full refund of your first month. After that, cancellation stops your next renewal and you keep access through the end of your paid month.
If you don’t visit Sokoon while signed in during a full paid month, we automatically cancel your membership at the end of that month—you won’t be charged for the next one. We’ll remind you 5 days before renewal. The unused month isn’t refunded.
Before you begin
Sokoon's conversations and reports use AI. They help you reflect on what you share and your saved context. You aren't chatting with a human therapist or coach, and AI can make mistakes.
Sokoon is a self-discovery service, not therapy, medical care or a crisis service. Membership currently offers the assessment, conversations, insights, circle and Deep Dives described here. It does not promise introductions or matching.
Before using the product, you'll be asked for explicit consent to sensitive processing. You can manage that consent and request deletion in Membership. Read the Privacy and Consumer Health Data policies before joining.
No. The starting points help you explore Sokoon in a way that feels relevant. They all lead to the same membership and you can begin without choosing one.