Most dating apps match you on surface traits. Sokoon helps you understand your relationship patterns first — so you can finally break the cycle and build something real.
Discover Your PatternFree · 2 minutes · No signup required
Different person, same dynamic. You're not broken — you just have patterns you can't see yet.
You adapt to keep the peace. You lose yourself to keep them. And wonder why you feel invisible.
You protect yourself so well that no one can get in. Independence feels safer than intimacy.
You chase the spark, but the highs and lows are exhausting. Read receipts send you spiraling.
You know what healthy looks like. Your challenge is finding someone who can meet you there.
A quick, research-backed quiz reveals your core relationship pattern — how you connect, protect, and sometimes self-sabotage.
A guided conversation helps you understand why you developed these patterns and what they cost you in relationships.
Receive specific, actionable guidance on what to watch for in yourself and what to look for in a partner.
Coming soon: Connect with people whose patterns complement yours — not repeat them.
"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."— Carl Rogers
The assessment takes 2 minutes. What you learn might explain years of relationship confusion.
Take the Free Assessment